About Dr. Millian


N.J. Board of Psychological Examiners License #1998 to Practice Psychology 1984
Post Doctoral, New York Institute for Psychotherapy, New York, NY 1992
Ph.D. Rutgers University, New Brunswick, NJ 1982
M.A. The New School University, New York, NY 1979
B.A. Douglass College, New Brunswick, NJ 1976


American Psychological Association
New Jersey Psychological Association
American Mental Health Counselors Association

Other Credits

During my practice as a Psychologist and Marriage Counselor, I have authored numerous magazine and newspaper articles, as well as co-authoring THE SECOND WIVES CLUB: Secrets for Becoming Lovers for Life, a couples relationship therapy book.

I have been the featured Psychologist on over 30 radio talk-shows and 12 television shows including the Today Show, CBS-TV News, ABC Eyewitness News, and NEWS12 as a counselor speaking on couples therapy and second marriage.

I have published a continuing column in "The Danbury News-Times," Danbury, CT entitled "Ask a Psychotherapist." As a counselor, I have advised individual inquirers, regardless of whether they are straight or gay, during times of stress in their lives when counseling would provide some benefit.

I am an internationally known Psychologist and Marriage Therapist recognized for her expertise in providing therapy to people for over 27 years. I have the counseling skills and therapy experience to assist an individual or couples in getting past existing, overwhelming road-blocks that are preventing them from leading peaceful, satisfying lives. These problems include stress, depression, anxiety, panic attacks, low self-esteem and other issues that affect the quality of people’s lives whether they are straight or gay.

In addition, as a counselor and therapist I have helped many an individual, regardless of whether he/she is straight or gay, when they experience difficulties in developing and maintaining positive relationships.

I am solution-oriented, and take an active role in our counseling sessions as a therapist. I will help you use what you learn during our sessions and apply this knowledge to your every day life. Remember, knowledge is the power needed to make effective changes in your life.

- Dr. Lenore Millian


Second Wives Club

is co-author of the relationship book "THE SECOND WIVES CLUB: Secrets for Becoming Lovers for Life," based upon her experience with "second-time-around" couples (straight or gay). The book was endorsed by Dr. John Gray, author of "Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus" and Dr. Gerald G. Jampolsky, M.D., author of "Love Is Letting Go of Fear" and "Forgiveness."